In his book, “The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success,” Deepak Chopra explains this law thusly: “In order to acquire anything in the physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it.” In other words, you give up your attachment to the result.
A simple formula for practicing detachment is “pay attention to the details, let go of the outcome.” This means that you do the activities that will help you realize your goal, and then let go of attachment to the outcome of that goal.
The real payoffs of practicing the Law of Detachment are less anxiety, less worrying, less disappointment.
Ultimately, the biggest payoff is better health and well-being, since the more anxiety (or stress) we experience the more our immune system is affected.
We can drive ourselves crazy when we think “What if this? Appearing not so happy is certainly not attractive.
Dating with detachment means actively applying the Law of Detachment to the dating situation.
There is no perfect person, no perfect relationship, job, house or city.
Letting go of the pursuit of perfection is practicing detachment, especially when dating.
It is estimated that there are about 30 million total users, with roughly 1 million unique users logging in every day.
It goes without saying that Ok Cupid has one of the better reputations of more popular free dating websites for having a wide variety of quality users.
By letting go of attachment to the outcome, you actually make the realization of the goal more likely.
One way of practicing detachment is to tell yourself “I want this to happen, but if it doesn’t happen, it may be for a good reason.” This is one way of letting go of the coveted outcome.
However, Ok Cupid has many not-so-great users as well, and it’s not uncommon for women to have the misfortune of encountering them, and in the past, I have as well.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating